This is a custom that didn't exist during my time. Besides eating during dinner parties, what else do people do during this time?

[If he had a little bit more information on it, he'll definitely be more prepared.]

Don't worry about it. It's part of my duty.

[He would have added "as your spouse" to the end of that sentence. But it's implied there. And it seems better left unsaid.

And wow, stop getting swayed by a little kid!]